I’ve been laughing at myself a lot for the last two weeks because I figured something out about myself that you might be able to relate to. I make simple things hard. All the time. And then I feel put upon. And resentful. Because all of a sudden I have a mountain of things to do and they all feel hard. But the reality of it is that they aren’t particularly hard, or unpleasant. They are just things I need to do and I don’t want to do them. That’s the part that is making me laugh and shake my head because I live, by most of the world’s standards, a very comfortable, free life. I don’t worry about day to day violence or unrest; I am safe, well fed and free to do as I choose. So the my problems are not external. My problems are in my head dancing around having a ball and driving me nuts. I’ve even taken to writing the word “easy” on my hand when I’m having a bad day, because really? Most of the stuff is pretty damn easy. I’ll let the hard stuff in life be hard but I’m determined that the easy stuff should be easy.
One of my favorite productivity gurus is David Allen of Getting Things Done fame. He teaches us that getting things out of our heads and into a system that you can trust such as a notebook or productivity app is the only way to go. We walk around thinking of stuff all day long and it stresses us out! He suggests doing a brain dump and then start sorting out your thoughts and turning them into actionables.
A lot of things that we have on our to-do lists are not actually actionables.
For instance I have “deal with insurance bill” on my to do list. But it is actually a project, not an action. (Sidenote: don’t be afraid of the word “project”–they come in all sizes and just means that you have multiple steps to resolve an issue.) David Allen would say “So, what’s your next action?” as in, what is the action that needs to take place to advance the project? In order to “deal” with it I need to 1. collect my receipts and bills, 2. compare them to current insurance bill and then 3. call the insurance company (ugh). Even though this is an unpleasant thing to do, each step will probably only take 15-20 minutes at the most. I can knock it out in an hour and get on to doing the more pleasant things on my list of things to do (such as: buy fresh flowers or sketch new embroidery project). This principle can be applied to anything you are dealing with at home or at work. And it certainly breaks things down into doable size actions that can be scheduled or knocked out once you have spent a few minutes thinking about what actually needs to get done.
Declutter the house is not a to-do. It’s a project made up of tiny little actions. Some of those actions are a royal pain and some of them are actually pleasurable, but if you put them all in one lump that it won’t get done, you won’t get to experience the pleasure of a finished result and you most certainly will prolong the pain. You can spend weeks, months or years avoiding taking care of stuff that is far easier to do than you are imagining. I pinky swear. And when you get to something hard, enlist some help from a family member or friend. Or pump yourself up by wearing your favorite shirt or listening to a shake your booty song. Or both! Empower yourself by breaking down some of the stuff on your to-do list and start feeling better about making the easy stuff easy!
If you haven’t already, give this simple but super effective tool a test drive and let me know what you think! Are you a fan of David Allen? Do you have some secret weapon that you use when you are trying to go Ninja on your to-do list? Let me know in the comments below! I love hearing from y’all.
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